On Bilingual Children…

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Two of my articles on the topic of raising bilingual children went up this past week.

# 1: Raising a Bilingual Child for ParentUSACity.com which highlights some of the research showing the benefits of bilingualism and why it’s important for parents in multilingual families to try and pass on their linguistic diversity to their children. I interviewed some wonderful authors and experts for this article who provided solid insights. It’s amazing how much research has been done in this area. It was an eye-opening experience to learn the multifaceted benefits of bilingualism – something so many of us take for granted!

# 2: The other is a guest post on the Desiknowledge blog – The Balancing Desi. Desiknowledge.org, a California-based non-profit is a fantastic source of children’s books and comics from India – a great resource for Indian parents in the US and Canada who want to give their children a taste of Indian culture, mythology and history. If you grew up devouring Amar Chitra Kathas, you’ll be delighted to find that their site has a wide collection of ACKs and other educational material from India including bilingual picture books, CDs and DVDs. Inspired by TOMS Shoes‘ ‘One for One’ idea, Desiknowledge has pledged to donate a book to a child in need in India for every book purchased. Check out Mother Tongue – The Gift Your Child is Entitled To and share your views!

Are Your Child’s Storybooks Taking Over Your Home?

Help! What do I do with all these picture books?

Picture books taking over your home?

You’ve probably already realized what I’ve just come to accept – if you have kids, there comes a point when you have more books(and toys and other accessories) than you can handle while managing to remain sane.

And you just can’t put off dealing with it beyond a certain stage.

Our home may have just hit saturation point and I spent a considerable amount of time this past month going through M’s books, organizing them into ’discard’, ‘donate’, ‘recycle’ and ‘keep’ piles.  

I didn’t immediately know what to do with all the books that M had outgrown but which I didn’t have the heart to throw away. A little research into the matter and some digging for ideas revealed many possibilities. So, if you find yourself facing the same situation, here are some ways to give your children’s old books a new leash of life.  

 Donate:  There’s definitely a child out there who can benefit from the gently-used books your child doesn’t need or use any more.  And there are dozens of places that accept used children’s toys, books, clothes and other items.  Here’s a great consolidated list of places to donate books.  
Below are a few more to consider. (Not all of them accept used books as donations, but they all support early literacy and reading programs in one form or another. So, you could still contribute by donating the proceeds from the sale of your children’s used books at a garage sale -)
Reach Out and Read,
Everybody Wins!,
ReadingTree,
United Way/ The Bridge of Books Foundation
,
FirstBook.
Other great places likely to accept children’s books in fairly good condition include your local library, your child’s school, schools in low income areas and hospitals. 

Pass ‘em on - Your child’s younger cousins, friends, your friends’ and neighbors’s kids all make excellent candidates to receive the books your child no longer reads.  So, before you discard or recycle a box of old children’s books, ask your friends and family to take a look and see if there’s anything their kids might like. You’ll be surprised at how much lighter the box will get at the end of the day. 

Exchange – If there’s a birthday party or sleepover coming up, why not suggest a book exchange instead of guests bringing new presents? Each child could bring a book he no longer reads, wrapped up as a gift.  At the party, have the children exchange their books. This way, everyone goes back with a new book (sort of), while having learned a lesson in recycling and reusing.

Set up your own children’s library - Get together with your friends and neighbors and collect all the children’s books that aren’t in frequent use. Set up a library at one of the houses or in a garage or storage shed that is easily accessible to everyone. Take turns managing the library. Train the kids to categorize, catalogue, organize books and to keep records. This is a great way for kids to learn about community building, develop leadership and organizational skills, share ideas and care for books. A mobile weekly library is another option where each week, one child accompanied by a parent goes around the neighborhood, collecting and delivering books.

Create a book museum at home – Some of us simply can’t bear the thought of parting with books – even those of the lift-the-flap variety that our children have long outgrown. When the idea of donating or recycling children’s books is not an option either because the books hold special memories or you’d just like to preserve your children’s items for posterity – why not turn a corner of your house into a children’s book museum? Come up with a unique, uncluttered way to display your child’s books. A glass encased book shelf will work well. So will a wall shelf on a staircase landing. Or a lesser used cabinet in the kitchen. Turn an old crib into a book chest. Find a place that will serve as a home to your child’s books for years to come and who knows, if you do a really good job of caring for and preserving the books, your great grand children might even enjoy and appreciate them.

What do you do with the dozens of picture books, board books and story books that don’t interest your child any more? Share your favorite ‘decluttering ideas’!

Children’s Book Sneaks in Smart Cookie Advice

A Delicious Reason to Read to Your Child

You probably know that advice usually doesn’t get you very far with kids.

Even babies seem to be wired to sense unsolicited advice and are equipped with the mechanism to ignore or avoid it.  Children have this uncanny way of figuring out when you’re about to dole out advice and activate their built-in auto shut-off mechanism almost involuntarily.

So, what is a well-meaning parent to do if he wants to teach his child about being punctual or patient, or about compromise or caring for others?

Parenting experts will tell you that you should keep trying to find those windows of opportunity to plug in advice( even if huge chunks of it miss the mark) and continue to set an example yourself. And by all means, listen to them. They probably know what they’re saying 73.8% of the time.

But if you find yourself tearing your hair out after vain attempts at getting your kids to stop fighting or helping around the house, maybe it’s time to fix your hair and go pick up a copy of One Smart Cookie – Bite Sized Lessons for School Years and Beyond.

Children’s Book Teaches Kids to Bake
(… and encourages good behavior! But, don’t tell them! )

One Smart CookieLike me, if you sense the aroma of freshly baked cookies wafting from the pages, you are likely to be disappointed. Sorry, the book offers no free samples.

But it does keep its promise of offering bite-sized lessons for your tots in a manner that may actually hold their attention and win their approval. And maybe even coax them into listening, compromising, waiting patiently or (gasp!) sharing with their siblings and friends.

One Smart Cookie(Author: Amy Krouse Rosenthal, Illustrators: Jane Dyer, Brooke Dyer, Published By: Harper Collins) offers sincere, sensible advice using simple, short sentences, strong vocabulary and irresistible illustrations in a non-condescending way that makes it easy to take in stride.  

Children's Book Inspires Good Behavior

 

 

So, if you’re wondering how to explain ’being prompt’ to your first grader or struggle to get your squabbling twins to compromise, I suggest you make your first stop at the book store.

The way I see it, One Smart Cookie is as appropriate for your two-year old as it is for your teenager. It would make a wonderful back-to-school, birthday or graduation gift.
And in the unlikely event that your kids see through your sneaky plan and refuse to take the bite-sized advice, all is not lost. Take comfort in the fact that at the very least, they would have learned to bake.